A comment from my coach to a sec 1:
"Wow! I'm happy you playing with these folks!Seriously, I think that's the cutting edge that RI players lack.One must learn how to play with these folks, beat them and let them know you are much better than them, and turn them around to respect you and want to make friends with you.First of all you must know that these guys feel small and thus they get mad because they are not beating you and it makes them feel even smaller and empty. So you must learn to feed them and make them feel good (1 on 1 is not good, play team stuff instead).Secondly, don't play physical with them. Use skills to blow them out. Of course that requires that you be really good (go practice).Thirdly, every basketball court has a "big boss". That's the guy that even bullies don't mess around with. If you get to know that guy (and some of them are really decent people), no one messes around with you.If all else fails, get me to go along when you go, or some super star that everyone knows. Haha, like Mr Danny Chua or Mr Chey.How are you now? "

Well, quite sian with some of the comments made.
Wow! I'm happy you playing with these folks!Seriously, I think that's the cutting edge that RI players lack.- I always do, since sec 1, i always go to neighbourhood courts.

Secondly, don't play physical with them. Use skills to blow them out. Of course that requires that you be really good (go practice).- I always play physical, till people make fun of me or hate me.

Thats all lol, but still it seems my coach never sees what i do? all my effort and crap?